Boss Speaks to Spanish Speakers Only

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about Spanish only in meetings.

I work in a cannery in CA. Most of the workers there only speak Spanish. After work, my boss only held a meeting in Spanish. Can he do this? Three of us speak only English and had no idea what was going on. He is very rude to the English speaking employees. What can I do?

Signed, Left Out

Dear Left Out:

You have a voice and can politely ask what your boss has said. Quit thinking you are treated unfairly and that your boss is rude. He could simply think you understand Spanish even though you don’t speak Spanish to him. Does he know you can’t understand Spanish? During a meeting you could raise your hand and ask for him to tell you what he was saying in English. Did you do that?

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Only Guy Among Women in the Workplace

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about women discrimination of men.

I have noticed that women in the workplace seem to promote/encourage women alone. This is the bias here. Gossip is what seems to be a common bond between them. Meetings and projects to produce results, often end up as talk in the air. It’s very frustrating, especially when you’re the only guy in the team. What’s even more frustrating is the sweet-talkers absolutely fail to acknowledge a poor outcome for a project; they then then play the blame game. To add to my woes there seems to be ample research about bias against women in the workplace but absolutely none about women who stereotype against men. I actually have a sense that some of them are extreme feminists. Any advice on how to deal with such a situation especially when it could interfere with a promotion? Thanks

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False Accusation of Racism

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about being accused of racism: And how do we go about fighting the defamation of my husband’s name? Do we have a legal standing.

My husband works for an international/multicultural company and has really enjoyed his job. Part of his job specification as an operations manager is to keep things running smoothly and deal with staff issues. Two weeks ago he was asked to address an issue with one of the sales staff, who has been keeping his clients as close as possible, and not allowing other staff in the company to deal with or communicate with them. Even though he is a paid employee of the company, he has been acting on his own. My husband was asked by his boss to send out a email introducing the rest of the staff, and detailing their ability to handle the incoming work these particular clients had coming in, offering their openness to be there if the sales rep was unable to help with customs advice or related issues. Unfortunately, the sales rep has a strong accent, and on many occasions it has been difficult for all staff to understand him.

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Supervisor’s Rights

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about being watching one’s language.

Picture this: Manager to Supervisor: “Someone said that you made a derogatory remark to them today – you need to be careful what you say.” Supervisor to Manager: “Oh no, what did I say? I certainly have not meant to offend anyone.” Manager to supervisor: “You don’t need to know; just watch what you say. It can come back to bite you.”

Supervisor to Manager: “I will for certain be careful; however, I would like to know who I offended, so that I can apologize and make it right.” Manager to supervisor: “I can’t tell you. You just need to be careful.” Does the supervisor have a right to know what was said and who was offended?

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Falsely Accused of Racial Comments

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about accusation of racism: I have had 6 complaints of saying something labeled as a racial comment. What does someone do or can do about these false accusations?

I work for a healthcare contractor that provides Management Services for a Hospitals, schools, Universities etc. In my location, a hospital, I am in charge of more than 108 employees and 3 managers. From time to time, I am placed in a position that requires me to serve corrective actions to employees who have violated policies. Considering the demographics, the diversity of our employees, we do sometimes try to forgive some actions unless we can identify that an employee sets a trend or habit of violating policies.

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Not Calling Me By My Name

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about not being addressed by name.

What does it mean when a co-worker will not address me by my name? It’s always “Hey man” or “Hey buddy”. To me, it is very disrespectful not to address a person by his or her name. I always address this person by his name. He calls others by their names. We’ve had our differences, but not so bad that we can’t work together; I think.

Signed, I Have a Name

Dear I Have a Name:

Apparently “Hey, Man” for your coworker is a short-cut for him. He doesn’t have to remember your name. To address you this way is not really disrespectful unless you treat it as so. I have a long-time friend with whom I have conducted training for employees of hundreds of companies who almost always greets me with “Hi, Big Guy.” He does this in spite of the fact that he’s a hundred pounds heavier than I. It’s a habit.

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Can A Boss Tell Coworkers You Are A Drug Addict?

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about being hassled about drug addiction: My fiancé is also a recovering drug addict. Her boss is hearing rumors about her and is confronting her in front of coworkers and customers inside the restaurant causing my fiancé to cry and feel very embarrassed.

My fiancé works at a restaurant. Her boss is constantly demeaning her in front of coworkers and customers. My fiancé is also a recovering drug addict. Her boss is hearing rumors about her and is confronting her in front of coworkers and customers inside the restaurant causing my fiancé to cry and feel very embarrassed. She loves her job. But she hates going to work because of constant demeaning. Her boss also asked for the name and number of the doctor she is going to for help in front of the entire kitchen staff. My fiancé told her that there isn’t a need to talk about that in front of everyone;  it made her boss mad so she repeated it very loud when customers walked in.

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Workplace Alienation

Question Ask the Workplace Doctors about sexual discrmination: He eventually gave the issue to our HR representative who handed it off to our EEOC representative. I have everything documented. Currently, HR and our EEOC branch are reviewing their findings. I guess my question is would be, Am I on the right path with workplace alienation?

I’ve been working for my company for five years. When I first started working with the company, I expressed a desire to advance, learn the business, and eventually move into management if the opportunity presented itself. I received my Masters in Business in 2004, and thought joining this company would be a good move. I agreed to enter at a lower level to learn the business. The policy for new hires requires an individual to hold their position for a year before they can apply for a new position. During the beginning of my second year, we had a reduction in force. Our workforce was reduced by two thirds and I survived the cuts. It took another year before we started opening new positions in our company. Those positions were to fill some of the positions we had lost during the reduction in force (RIF).

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Personal Harassment

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about disciplinary discrimination.

I feel that I have been personally harassed by the office manager by being singled out with threat of disciplinary action by a verbal and written warning for one incident that is common in the profession, but no other employee was given the same disciplinary action for a similar incidents. Is there some literature or a web site I can access to protect myself without making a formal complaint? I would prefer to be proactive with prevention rather than with legal intervention first. Thank you

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Spa Client Constantly Harassing Spa Employee

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about harassment by customer: My manager and director (69 yrs old) are white as well as the client (looks about 60 yrs old). I am a 22 yr old, African American female.

I work at a spa in Georgia and have been verbally harassed by one of the spa’s clients every time she comes into the spa. This has happened on more than 4 occasions. Each time this has happened, I went to my spa director and asked that she speak with this client and demand that she stops harassing me. Each time I am told that because the client spends a lot of money that I should just “ignore it.” So over the last three months, I tried to ignore it.

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