I’m Tired of Being the “Bigger Person”

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about coworker agrivation:

My co-worker is going through stages of being hot and cold with me. Calling me sweetheart one day and then being totally rude to me the next. I’m pretty even in how I deal with people however they are with me and always try to remain professional whatever the circumstance.The background to this is that she used to be a grade below me in my previous team but in my new team she is a grade higher – my total time in both teams has been just 6 months. How did she do it? I think she’s just good at buttering up the right people, something I can never bring myself to do out of principle. I’m honest so will be friendly if I like a person but polite and professional with those I don’t like etc.

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