How Can I Break In?

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about not fitting in to a new job: What would you do to stop the on and off alienation or punishment they want to make me aware?

For the first time in my life I have a job with no deadlines or unnecessary stress. At this point in my life I do not want a stressful job. I am 47 and am raising 9 and 10 year old boys. My co-workers work harder than me, but I would not consider any of our jobs stressful. There are 5 men and 2 females including myself. The one female hardly ever talks to me unless I address her. But she does engage in conversation with all the other men in the office. I am new to the company and they have been together for over 10 years. They have continued their routines as far as sports pools and their friendships and do not include me in their little family of friends.

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