Two Managers With A Relationship Gang Up On Me

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about job boss/friendship conflict:

I’m 24 and I’ve been with my company for about a year and a half. The operations manager 26 (also my roommate) and myself do not see eye to eye at times, typical in business. Most times we work out our issues fairly easily but now we have this problem. Another employee at the management level, 26 (female, and the ops manager have become more than just co-workers.

They deny the personal relationship to the end but like I said, he’s is my roommate I see a lot. I find it hard to believe that it’s strictly platonic when she is over 2 to 3 times a week making dinner and sleeping in his bed, when she lives about 3 blocks away.Now my problem is that every disagreement between the Ops manager and myself will result in her butting-in and agreeing with everything he has to say, and disagreeing with me no matter how asinine his argument may be. Very frustrating to deal on a day to day basis, not to mention I have to deal with her at home now as well. Any advice?

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