Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about friend of VP’s wife who does what she pleases: . Even taunting like a child that she was invited to attend a meeting and I wasn’t. I don’t respond except when the yelling started and all I say is stop in a calm voice repeatedly
I work with a woman who got hired (1 year ago I have been here for 3 years) by knowing the VP’s wife. She works 3 days a week, comes and goes as she pleases and never works the set days she was assigned. Comes in late on the workdays, or whenever she wants, is on her personal cell phone all day long, and constantly asks for help regarding computer programs and project that have nothing to do with my job at all. She is clueless about being a secretary and can’t type. I am 2 VP’s secretary and she is the secretary of a different department’s manager. I always help, am always kind, courteous and respectful. She has recently, now about incidents, been getting in my face and yelling and verbally abusing me for no reason whatsoever. Even taunting like a child that she was invited to attend a meeting and I wasn’t. I don’t respond except when the yelling started and all I say is stop in a calm voice repeatedly. She doesn’t stop. There is no one to talk to to control this issue as she will never be fired. She recently said a certain incident regarding her mistake would cost me MY job. Threatening my job!! Then 10 minutes later was talking to me like her best friend. Please help. I am at my wits end, I love my job but she is killing me inside and destroying my home life with this abusive behavior. Thank you.