Should I Report My Husband Affair To HR?

Question to Ask the Workplace Doctors about a husband’s affair: Should I send an anonymous letter to his HR department and report the affair?

A few months ago I received a phone call that my husband was having an affair with a coworker and her name was given to me. I also saw in his phone bills that he has been texting and calling her cell number many times during the day. He has now changed is password to the phone bill and doesn’t allow me to see it. I also saw him writing to her on Facebook. He claims she is just a friend. Should I send an anonymous letter to his HR department and report the affair? According to the company rules an affair within the dept is not acceptable.

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